Why did i move abroad??

I get this question all the time. I got this question when I just had plans to “one day” move abroad to Dubai. I get this question even now.

“Why do you want to leave everything you have in America and move to a foreign country?”

The truth is, I soon realized that “having it all” is relative to what you define as “it all”. Some define contention as being financially free (to an extent), driving a nice car, living in a nice part of town in a nice house or apartment. To me, contention equals happiness, which to me is defined as having a family to come home to, a fresh homemade meal every night, a business I love and get excited about everyday, great health, safety and stability in life. I started to wonder if I was being ungrateful, and I wasn’t. I was thankful to God for providing what all he provided, but I wanted more.

My son and I visited Dubai for my 39th birthday in 2024. I instantly fell in love with the city. From the safety, to the culture, to the infrastructure and the business opportunities. It seemed like a great place to raise a family. I was determined to make this my home one day.

The end of 2024 and the beginning of 2025 was a challenging year for me mentally. I struggled a lot. I struggled with my constantly evolving childcare situation. I struggled with inflation. I struggled with relationships with friends and family. However, 2025 had one defining moment (or two) which showed me that I could no longer stay here and be happy.

My babysitter had canceled last minute per usual, so, my friend had offered to watch my son for me so I could attend a work meeting. When I went to go pick my son up and as I was buckling him in the backseat, a masked robber attempted to jump into the driver’s seat of my vehicle. It was then I made the decision we were leaving America and moving somewhere more safe.